Overview
Talking to children about cancer can feel overwhelming. Your first reaction may be to keep the news of the diagnosis from them or to delay telling them. However, honest, age-appropriate conversations can help kids feel safer, supported and included.
The information here provides a starting point for having conversations about cancer. It covers how children and teenagers may respond to cancer, ways to explain treatment and side effects, tips for maintaining routines and emotional wellbeing, and answers to common questions children may ask.
A cancer diagnosis in the family can be challenging. Find helpful information below, or call Cancer Connect on 13 11 20 to talk it through with our qualified professionals.
What's in this booklet
Talking about cancer
Research shows being open with children helps them cope better. Learn more about the benefits of talking to kids about cancer here.
How children understand cancer
Children of different age groups may have many reactions to news of a cancer diagnosis. Find out what they are and suggested approaches you can take to reassure them.
Talking about the diagnosis
Find out how to tell your children about a cancer diagnosis and some tips for preparing for the conversation.
Talking about treatment
Discover the most effective ways to explain cancer treatment and side effects to children.
After treatment
Learn how to find a "new normal" with your family after treatment. Understand ways to look after yourself and how to talk to your children about how things have changed.
Talking about advanced cancer
Discover strategies for talking to your children about advanced cancer. Find support and learn how to ease their worries.
How children understand death
Explore how children understand death at different ages and how to support grieving children.
Finding support and information
Talking to children about cancer can be difficult and daunting, but you are not alone. Cancer Connect can offer support and link you with specialised assistance.
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