Advanced cancer

Facing end of life

Trustworthy information about facing end of life for people with cancer, their families and friends

Overview

Learning that you may not have long to live can be a shock – even if you were in some way expecting it. You may already know that the cancer has spread, or you may have been feeling unwell, but hearing that you are dying can be extremely upsetting.

When you are ready, you may find it helpful to learn more about what you can expect, how you might feel and ways to cope.

If you need extra support, call Cancer Connect on 13 11 20 to talk it through with our qualified professionals.

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What's in this booklet

Finding out that you are near the end of life

Explore ways to cope after finding out that you are near the end of life. Understand your emotions and reactions and find practical information and support.

Common questions about dying

You may have questions about what will happen now and later. Find out about your health care, making plans, what dying well means, and how complementary therapies could help.

Emotional and spiritual needs

Find ideas for starting conversations about dying and how to meet your emotional and spiritual needs as you approach end of life.

Physical changes

Find out what to expect and symptoms that can happen towards the end of life. Understand how pain, fatigue, breathlessness or loss of appetite can be managed.

Choosing where to die

Deciding where you would like to die is a personal decision. Compare insights into the benefits of dying in palliative care, at home, or in a hospital.

Practical concerns when facing end of life

Knowing your affairs are in order can be a comfort as you approach the final stages of life. Find out about advance care planning and the legal documents you may need to arrange.

Caring for someone who is dying

Find out more about caring for someone at the final stages of their life and the practical, physical and emotional support you may need to provide.

Questions for your doctor

See our list of questions that you may want to ask about end-of-life care.

Support and information

Find out about end‑of‑life services, carer support, counselling and palliative care to support people at the end of life.